|Jeff and I marry, August 26, 2012.|
They say time flies when you're having fun, and as far as I'm concerned our marriage proves it.
I can't believe it's already been five years since we got married. Life goes by fast, especially when I have somebody like you in my life to make it so awesome.
I've learned to savor every day, as I know things will keep whipping by us, even as we settle further into the wonderful routines of marriage.
Big life events blindside us every now and then. We both lost our fathers since we've gotten married. I lost a job, gained another. We've watched each other gradually turn a little older. We deal with our mini-crises that all couples face. The furnace breaks. We need a new roof.
We manage because you're always there to keep me propped up. Since Day 1, you've been the one to steady me when I worry too much, or when I wrongly begin to see my glass as half empty.
Because with you, my glass is always full to the brim. And I'm not talking about the glass full of beer I sometimes have in the evening.
What's full is my life. With you. It's unimaginable to think what I would be like right now if you hadn't come into it.
You remember when we first started dating all those years ago I resisted. You persisted. Thank God you did.
This will sound odd, but as I resisted you way back then, thinking I didn't deserve someone as fine as you, lyrics from an old Eagles song kept nagging at me.
"You'd better let somebody love you before it's too late."
So eventually, I popped the question. And on August 26, 2012, we married. Thanks to you, it wasn't too late. It wasn't too late to be in love, to have you, this big hearted, kind, strong, smart, compassionate loving man in my life.
You know I'm grateful every day.
Five years in, we are kind of an old, married couple, aren't we? You've remodeled the house to truly make it a beautiful, comfortable home. I'm coming along nicely with the garden projects outside. You inspire me to spread beauty, so I'm just going to keep planting those flowers until I'm no longer capable of doing so.
The dogs bark, telling us they're hungry, so we feed them. Then we all go out for a dash around the yard. All great moments in life, again because you're there with me.
In the evening, we sit in front of the TV, gnashing our teeth in anger when Rachel Maddow explains the latest Washington scandal, or we marvel at the teenage ventriloquist on "America's Got Talent," or thrill to the athletes on "American Ninja Warrier."
All routine stuff. But really, it's not routine. Because you're sitting there with me. It's all something to embrace and savor. I lose my concentration with what Rachel is talking about - it's not important anyway. because you're there.
So I sit on the couch and stare at you as you sit in your nice big easy chair. And I think about how empty my life would be by comparison if you weren't taking the journey with me.
Yes, this message was mushy and gooey and oh so sticky sweet, but it had to be said. I also understand this message is similar to the one I gave you last year on our anniversary. I feel the same as last year toward you, only even more so.
You've made me a much better man, and nothing compares with the joy of being in love with you.
Happy anniversary, Jeff! I feel so lucky to love you more and more each day.